Responsibility success stories often give me goosebumps. Especially those that report substantial life change, growth, and release.
This person is excited for me to share their story. Why? It might help you or another reader own whatever it is that you *think* you have to keep secret.
The ego in each of you feeds on the drama, so it is easier to blame in the short term, but that takes a tragic toll in the longer term.
If you want to de-escalate and regain your freedom, choice, and power, I can help. If you want to keep blaming, I have little to offer.
My ex-partner doesn’t take responsibility for her actions. She blamed me and called me emotionally immature, and that’s basically why she’s my ex-partner.
What would be the reason for this? As in, why can’t a 43-year-old woman take responsibility for her own emotions?
The invitation to work in a Mastery Group is some form of the question, “Who has something that’s not quite right in your world?” Another version of the question is, “Whose mind keeps chewing on some issue or problem that you wish you could be done chewing on so you can free up that mental space?”
I am Ukrainian and have worked as a life coach for several years. Unfortunately, due to the war in Ukraine, I have many requests from my clients, like feeling lost in life and career, losing hope, blaming others, being overwhelmed by hate around, and too much pressure and obligation because life has become so unpredictable.
Coping is overrated. But you are likely an expert at it. Why? Because our society teaches that coping with “stuff” we don’t want is a success strategy. (I don’t buy it.)
You are always doing the best you know how (in each moment, given your consciousness and the context). Try that on. You may be thinking: I’m not sure I ALWAYS do my best. No. That’s not what the principle says.
When you really truly get that you have infinite choices available to you all day, every day, and that each one can create an entirely new path, then you can sense the beginning of true freedom. You can start to take charge of your life.
Here’s a brief guide to benefit anyone who wants to teach others about Responsibility. Everyone, including you, has the opportunity to teach Responsibility.
You will find 27 links to books, apps, and tools that you may find valuable. Where relevant, I explore how that item can support your Responsibility-thinking practice.
