Our clients are busy, successful people
They are smart, caring, and ambitious. High-performers. Looking very good on the outside.
But on the inside, they usually have problems
They think these problems just come along with success:
- Work-life imbalance. “Balance”, what’s that?
- Feeling bad about not living up to expectations as a friend, partner, parent, or employee.
- Feeling trapped in obligations — burdened with too many “have to’s”, no choice!
- Feeling prey to the “jungle out there” — never being good enough.
- Blocked by the economy, pandemic, time constraints, sucky work culture, bad boss, politics, …
- “I’m in a white male world — and I’m not one.”
- “I don’t like certain things about me — the way I look, the way I act.”
- “I don’t feel like I measure up — never good enough, a poser.”
- “Why does stuff keep happening to me!? It’s like life is against me.”
If you identify with any of the above, you are not alone.
(More importantly, there is nothing wrong with you.)
You live in a “coping culture”
You and I have been taught to suck it up and take the bitter with the sweet.
“Coping” with crap is considered a success strategy — a valuable skill set. You are great at it.
(“Coping” is a big market for all kinds of content. A recent Amazon search returned 40,000 titles… ”How to Cope with a Bad Boss” etc.)
There’s just one huge problem with coping. You’re never happy, never free.
Your mind has to hold onto and work on that coping continuously — this is the garbage, the constant mental demands, chewing, processing. It’s cumulative, and it uses lots of processing power and storage in the mind.
And returns very little value.
See how coping affects your life. Take the Responsibility Scorecard Self-Assessment.
Responsibility-thinking gets you out of coping
With Responsibility-thinking, you can be resourceful and happy — we call it
“Being free, powerful, and at choice.”
And it is available to you and everyone, all the time.
Responsibility is owning your power and ability to create, choose, and attract your reality.
Responsibility-thinking provides you with ever-increasing freedom, choice, and power.
Freedom means freedom from stuckness, coping, and self-torment.
Choice means experiencing enough as opposed to lack.
Power means self-empowerment, the ability to be, do, and have what you want.
Transform your life with Responsibility-thinking
Responsibility-thinking is a proven technology — an applied behavioral science — for taking charge of your mind. Applying it makes you wiser and happier. Successful people apply it every day to get what they want in life AND get rid of what they don’t want.
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Join the Responsibility Community to learn more about how the coping mind and culture works and how you can move from coping to growing.
It gave me a fundamental capability that now I wonder how I ever managed to do without.
Curtis Verstraete
President, On Purpose LP
I’m the best version of myself. Working with The Responsibility Process is one of the best things that has happened in my life. Thank you so much.
Barbara Misiur
Scrum Mastery, ScrumCenter, Zielona Góra, Lubuskie, Poland
Having a Responsibility practice is like having a treasure map that actually works – you find so much more gold than stumbling around in the dark.
Craig Dial
ScrumSensei, CPanel, Houston, Texas
I gained more ability, but more importantly, my quality of life has increased significantly and continues to do so. Today I am happier, healthier and more free, and I continue to enjoy Responsibility Mastery and the wonderful community around it.
Towo Toivola
Head of Methodology, EKE-Electronics Ltd., Helsinki, Finland
A year ago, I was struggling. I was overwhelmed by problems and demands, I wasn’t happy with the direction my job was going. In the last year of working with Christopher, I have worked out what matters to me and what I really want. I give the team space to take responsibility and ownership for their delivery. I found a different way to inspire people in their work, and I am enjoying it so much more.
Ian Brockbank
Manager Of Software Engineering, Cirrus Logic, Scotland
I could not figure out how to be responsible and still do what I wanted to do instead of doing the things I am obligated to do. I now recognize that I have the choice, the freedom and the power to practice the responsibility process where my actions align with who I am and what I stand for. It’s liberating!
Kimchi Chow
Creator/Producer, Asian Women Of Power Podcast
